WILL YOU MARRY ME ?

There was a buzz yesterday about a lady that proposed to a guy

, and he turned down her proposal. chai! my skin crawled when i thought about the shame and embarrassment, the young lady must have felt, which brings me back to my first question? how didn't she know that the relationship wasnt at that level yet? well, that's just bygone, What is wrong with a woman proposing? we are Africans, we have dignity blah blah blah, shut up, please. If two people are in an honest and committed relationship, i believe it shouldn't be a shame to pop the big question. African women have come a long way, from kitchen relegation, now we have women that have paved way for women emancipation, we have left the stone age where women were shamed for initiating any sexual encounter in the other room, they were looked down on as being loose. We have adopted the western lifestyle, and we are projecting it on the younger generation, African teens are having crushes, an 18-year-old is bold enough to tell her parents she's in love, a housewife can boldly ask her husband for oral sex, without him assembling a family meeting, ladies are boldly asking guys for a relationship.These things are no big deal. suddenly she pops the big question after she might have done a thorough soul search and she was convinced he was the one and her village people whispered to her to pick a crowded place like Ikeja city mall, she puts on a black gown and the infamous golden shoe. Chai! there is God oo. She gets an A for boldness. Some of the women calling her out are in a broken down relationship that is going nowhere, yet they stay on. at least now she knows the nature of her relationship. To some other lady out there that might have bought a ring, and you are thinking of going shopping to propose to that special guy, mbok, use play and ask him first. if he hesitates, eyen eka quickly rush to Balogun and sell the ring, use the money and invest in cryptocurrency. As for the black gown and shoe, keep rocking it, let him see why he needs to put that ring on it.